1st of January 2014. Husband is asking for the hundredth time about my New Year resolutions and plans. I am good with plans. I have already scheduled many of them in our shared calendar: trips, events and dinners (dates too!). Plans and lists – those I love making (especially for other people), but my own resolutions…? too much responsibility. For some reason this year, he wants to have them written down (seriously!) and hold me to them. That is really scary. I tried to trick him and set some very vague ones, but it didn’t work. Now he is asking for resolutions month by month. Hmm, I am in trouble.. and on the first day of the year!